Exploring Bondage Sex for Beginners

Bondage became popular especially when Fifty Shades of Grey was released a couple of years ago. But before this went mainstream, many people are into BDSM due to adrenaline rush, satisfying pressure, and various sensations you don’t normally get on the usual foreplay and sex. Bondage, in general, is a consensual tying or restraining your partner for erotic stimulation. Not all may be open to this idea, and since this is not a common practice, here are insights on how you can start exploring bondage sex for a start of many fun but wild nights.

It is always best practice to talk with your partner if you want to try something new in bed. Communicating your turn-ons and boundaries is part of responsible BDSM sex play. And no matter how much you’re really turned on with a certain kink, do not force it with your partner if he/she is not into it. Anticipate any possible scenarios and inhibitions that might occur and plan it ahead.

Bondage play is fun to do with someone you really trust. Since it is a game of surrender of control, you would want to do it with someone you know already and whom you trust. Bondage play is like giving all yourself to your partner but also setting boundaries, knowing the other person will hold the end of the bargain. Establishing a safety word before the play helps. Don’t be afraid to set your limitations so you can ensure a fun experience.

While it is tempting to recreate all the fun positions and role-plays you saw in Fifty Shades of Grey, it is best to keep bondage play simple if you are not a pro yet. Start with a non-intimidating prop like a blindfold. Blindfolds are common starting tool because it can heighten other senses and the material is comfortable. Try introducing an elegant blindfold into your routine that is also soft to touch. Once your partner is blindfolded, try whispering on his/her ear, and you will see how the experience id more intense and exciting.

Bondage restraints have various types, sizes and experience to offer. If you and your partner are comfortable to continue with BDSM, try including one or two toys to level up your game. Handcuff is another beginner-friendly bondage item. This is great for dominant-submissive roleplays. You can ensure your submissive partner won’t be able to touch herself while you play the dominant one.

Creativity in bed will lead you to places and experiences you have not discovered yet. Keeping an open mind with you and your partner’s kinks and desires unfolds boundless learning to getting pleasurable nights. Beginners in bondage sex can learn a thing or two about BDSM tools and what to do to butter up a more exciting and thrilling play in bed. Enjoying the erotic appeal of bondage is normal as long as there is mutual consent.